Saturday, June 28, 2025

Happy Pride Weekend: Cherish our Freedoms in Canada while Hungary cracks down on Pride; Trans kids aren't just here to be abused by their parents, rules Alberta court

Pride march in Budapest on Saturday
Thousands marched in the streets of Budapest this weekend in defiance of corrupt conservative dictator Viktor Orban, favourite strongman of Donald Trump and Stephen Harper.  

It was a true Pride protest targeting Orban's crackdowns and anti-gay laws which banned such parades earlier this year in a clear crackdown on democratic freedoms ahead of a national election next year when Orban will face a strong opposition challenger.

As Toronto Pride parades launch this weekend, I can't help but think of my sisters and brothers in Hungary, or any part of the world where such public signs of affection between queer people including parades like ours are banned by intolerant and misguided governments.  

Bravo to the queers standing up for their rights amidst despicable government power!  

Right here at home, we had a victory of sorts out of Alberta this week when a court ruled that Premier Danielle Smith's draconian law banning all gender-related medical care for trans youth should be put on hold.  

"Justice Allison Kuntz, in a written judgment Friday, said the Alberta law raises serious issues that need to be hashed out in court, and issued a temporary injunction against the law before it fully came into effect.

Trans rights flag held at Ottawa rally this year 
"Kuntz wrote that a temporary stop is needed to prevent what she calls "irreparable harm" coming to young patients while the issue is debated.

"The evidence shows that singling out health care for gender diverse youth and making it subject to government control will cause irreparable harm to gender diverse youth by reinforcing the discrimination and prejudice that they are already subjected to," Kuntz wrote in the judgment.

When weighed against parents' rights to control their children before they're 18, even to force them to live lives they can't lead authentically, it seems heartless and abusive to use government power to enact a one-size-fits-all policy for all trans youth.  In many cases, for the sake of the health of the youth, trans-related health care is very necessary to help the child survive.   

Opposition to trans youth freedoms is grounded in the same sort of ignorance that used to demand all gay and lesbian youth stay closeted and sexually inactive in their teen years because they didn't want us to do anything we'd "later regret".  As if being gay and young was only just a phase, and that youth who think they are non-binary or actually another gender are just having a flight of fancy that can be ignored until they're 18. 

No, ignoring the problem and burying your head in the sand, Danielle Smith's solution for everything, is not the way to go.   

"The law, passed late last year but not fully in effect, would have prevented doctors from providing treatment such as puberty blockers and hormone therapy to those under 16.

"Kuntz wrote that denying access to this care not only risks causing youth emotional harm but also exposes them to permanent physical changes that don't match their gender identity.

"Intentionally or not, the ban will signal that there is something wrong with or suspect about having a gender identity that is different than the sex you were assigned at birth," she wrote.

"Gender diverse youth will bear the entire burden of that speculation."

"2SLGBTQ+ advocacy groups Egale Canada and the Skipping Stone Foundation took the case to court, and in a statement Egale said the decision was a "historic win."

Friday, June 27, 2025

Zohran Mamdani has struck a blow to the Democratic party’s centrist-do-nothing passivity

Democratic candidate Zohran Mamdani

I was thrilled this week when New York Democratic assemblyman Zohran Mamdani shocked his party's centrist-do-nothing establishment and won the Democratic primary to run as mayor in New York City this fall.  This Guardian article by Moira Donegan describes well how Mamdani's immense skills and message won the day over a party establishment foolishly deadset against him. 

The centrist-do-nothing establishment, which has long dominated the New York Democratic Party, almost turned the deeply blue state red in the last couple of elections due to its incompetence and corruption.  They tried it again this year, so wedded to their bad instincts and lust for easy power, by endorsing the thoroughly discredited former New York governor Andrew Cuomo for mayor of NYC.  Cuomo, of course, resigned as governor a few years ago in disgrace over multiple sexual harassment allegations, and was generally seen as a centre-right friend of big business. 

Name recognition and the old 'inevitability factor' was supposed to sweep Cuomo into the mayor's office this year so he could accomplish...not sure what he hoped to accomplish, to be honest.  Centrist-do-nothings usually simply want to seize office in order to make sure nothing else is done with it to upset their powerful status quo or solve any major crises so that tax and regulation levels remain comfortable for the establishment and wealthy.  Sure they say progressive things on the campaign trail, and then they do nothing for the people once in office.  

This Democratic Party approach in the U.S. has led to defeat and enabled fascism with the second victory by Donald Trump last November.   

In a country so broken and corrupt, with its democracy in tatters and its government unable to deliver basic life improvements for its citizens like universal health care, affordable housing, jobs and growth, voters have sadly turned to the strongman liar psychopath now sitting in the White House.  

Establishment Democrats seem to be the dumbest political strategists on the planet.  They resemble establishment "centrists" or "progressives" the world over: always hostile to anything resembling non-market solutions, creativity or outside the box thinking that actually works.  

These establishment folks are just about hanging on to their own power and acting as gutless as possible.  Their answer to the Trump threat has been to abandon progressive ideals and even occasionally pretend to embrace some of the hate, thinking a lighter version of Trump is exactly what voters will want in 2028.  

California Governor Gavin Newsom whose recent move throwing trans people under the MAGA bus is a shining example of a Democratic establishment schmuck embracing hate because he thinks it'll make him more popular.  

Those centre-right Democrats couldn't be more wrong.  When voters are ready to throw MAGA out, they won't be looking for something similar.  They'll be looking for its antidote.   The candidate who most authentically embodies that antidote to Trump will be the next Democratic President.  If the Democrats again pick a centrist-gutless-do-nothing as their candidate in 2028, voters will reject them again and we'll have President Vance or, universe help us, Dictator Trump.  

I've been waiting for a left-wing American Democrat like Mamdani to come around for some time.  We haven't had up until now a so-called 'democratic socialist' candidate this talented at communicating his basic messages, which have resonated strongly with the base of NYC Democrats.  

When a candidate, whether they be a socialist, or a business Liberal, shows superb charisma and an incredible ability to communicate and connect with ordinary, struggling voters' concerns, it's up to us on the moderate-progressive left to recognize it. 

When someone shows us they know how to answer the tough questions, allay fears, inspire confidence and unite voters, we should embrace such candidates, not shun them.   

Mamdani was smeared in this race with lies about his positions on Israel, which showed how low his opponents would go to stop him.  A billionaire-backed Super PAC ran ads that even darkened his beard to make him look more sinister, clearly Islamophobic.  Mamdani was fearless in his own defence and seemed to get more popular after those negative ads were released against him.  Voters, at least in New York City, aren't that stupid.   

The old ways of selecting safe, uninspiring Biden-esque or Clinton-esque Democrats have clearly failed.  Donald Trump came back and crushed this version of the Democratic Party.  

How?  Because those do-nothing centrists did nothing to make the lives of ordinary Americans much better.  If some policies were passed here and there that were supposed to benefit those voters, it matters not because most voters weren't aware of the policies or how they'd benefit from them.  Biden ended up being the worst Democrat for governing in the modern era thanks to his old, bygone approach to politics.  He expected his good deeds would be communicated honestly and widely via the mainstream media to all voters who had no other options but to watch the nightly news on ABC, NBC, or CBS.  Nope, in fact about half of voters were getting their information from Fox News and the right-wing fantasy blogosphere.  

America is a broken country, the gap between its rich and its poor and middle class is widening, its place in the world is sinking under its crazy Trump leadership, its health care system remains horrendous, its education system a joke, its gun violence out of control, the list goes on.   

The policies espoused by so-called Democratic socialists like Mamdani include universal child care, rent control, free or more accessible city buses.  Yes, left wing policies designed to provide real benefit to those struggling out there.  These policies could work as Mamdani is promising a modest tax increase on the richest of New York City to pay for them.  That sort of tax increase might not work so well in most major cities, but the elites of New York literally have nowhere else to ascend, so fleeing the best city in the world due to a 2% tax increase seems unlikely for most.  The rich will barely notice it, but they will notice when more New Yorkers, able to afford their rents and the cost of living, boost the economy and unite the city in new ways.  For once, Democrats have a mayoral candidate in New York willing to fight for working people's needs, not just the wealthy and privileged.  That benefits everybody, not just working people, Mamdani has convincingly argued.

I am fundamentally a pragmatic progressive.  I will occasionally support moderate, centre-right Liberals when it makes sense, as it did this past year in Canada with Mark Carney.  Carney captured the zeitgeist with a few genius lines about standing up to the American bully and defending Canada's sovereignty.  It was an existential moment he met, and progressives, centrists and some conservatives lined up behind him as the clear choice to lead Canada. 

This doesn't mean that blue Liberalism is the only way to go.  It only means it's working in Canada for now.  It could also be working even better, were Carney to listen to some good, progressive advice like this.  

But a moderate, centre-right approach I think won't necessarily work well in the U.S. right now.  What will work?  Someone authentically capable of convincing struggling, working class and middle class Americans that Democrats understand their pain and will be fighting - FIGHTING - to make their lives better at every turn.  

Mamdani achieved that and is on his way to becoming New York mayor and a new Democratic star.   America needs this kind of progressive change.  

So-called centrist-do-nothings tired of losing to fascist Republicans had better get smart and learn to love the Zohran Mamdanis of their party.     

Monday, June 2, 2025

Toronto's Inside Out 2SLGBTQ+ film festival wraps as Pride Month kicks off!

Happy Pride Month to all as we start off June!  

I am feeling even more proud than usual at the moment after having just seen a slate of decent queer films at the just-wrapped 2025 Inside Out Toronto 2SLGBTQ+ Film Festival, a great event every late spring in our community. 

This year’s Inside Out festival did feel more like a community film festival again with films programmed to appeal to the audience, while not sacrificing quality.  As a paid member, Inside Out now offers six complimentary tickets to their screenings, which is a great bargain for a film lover like myself and an excellent way to promote memberships.  I grabbed 7 tickets overall as that’s all my schedule could handle and I am happy to give you my thoughts on some of them below.  

I missed the Brazilian feature flick Baby, which screened on the opening night of this year's festival, as I had some birthday celebrations to attend elsewhere that evening.  But this one is high on my list to hopefully catch soon as I heard a lot of positive word of mouth about it.  

Of the seven screenings I attended, I have to say that the Canadian documentary Parade: Queer Acts of Love & Resistance by director Noam Gonick was the best and most rewarding.  A thoughtful, engrossing documentary, it chronicles using crucial archival footage the fights over the years by various segments of Toronto’s and Canada’s 2SLGBTQ+ community at resisting and overcoming societal and police oppression to become stronger and liberated - to eventually take to the streets proudly as we do every year through Pride parades.  First, the queers of the 60s and 70s fought back against constant police attacks, and used the experiences of the 1960s civil rights movements as inspiration.  One segment’s gains inspired another still oppressed segment, such as 2S individuals to also fight back and earn respect.  Toronto had its Stonewall in the early 80s after the community fought back against police raids of our bath house spaces.  These attacks on our community served to unite us together in solidarity, one of the key themes of the film.  

Parade: Queer Act of Love & Resistance
This film delicately, honestly and powerfully proves that firm activism willing to take risks and push ourselves out into the open has been an effective tool for winning over both public support and our own self-respect.  Conservatives are still taking aim at trans people the world over, and our fight for each other continues.  Solidarity is key.  

The final chapter tells the story of Black Lives Matter, when activists both queer and Black led the parade in 2016 and brought it to a halt to protest the presence of the very folks who’ve been our sworn oppressors: the police.  That action actually led to the ban on uniformed police officers in the Toronto Pride parade, an event originally founded as a protest against police oppression.    

Our community still gets targeted by regressive police, more interested as ever in protecting private property than they are for community safety for 2SLGBTQ+ people.  That ban needs to stay in place, and if certain conservative elements object, they need to take a history lesson.  Watching Parade: Queer Act of Love & Resistance would be a great start. 

Sauna
The Danish feature film Sauna stood out as my favourite narrative drama feature.  The wonderfully honest film chronicled an absolutely beautiful but less than bright young cisgendered man's touching and awkward romance with a trans man in unvarnished, modern day queer Copenhagen.  Played by Magnus Juhl Andersen, our cisgendered hero Johan says very little, letting the audience guess at his motivations as he, recently out of the closet, stumbles into the arms of William, a transitioning trans male student, played beautifully by Nina Terese Rask.  Despite a few dumb mistakes, Johan's heart seems genuine.  A lost soul trying his best to navigate what can often seem like a cruel, indifferent modern gay community, Johan's efforts to support his new love seem often misguided and naive, but ring true as deeply relatable.  

Some Nights I Feel Like Walking
Some Nights I Feel Like Walking from the Philippines was a disturbing but touching story of four young men stuck at the edges of Manila where they typically trade off their bodies to make money and to survive.  After one of their friends overdoses, they struggle to deliver his dead body back to his family, eventually realizing only they are each other’s family, the ones keeping themselves alive, not the indifferent society in which they find themselves. 

The short narrative film Coming & Going was the best short I saw in the ‘I Know Who You Did Last Summer’ shorts screening.  Delightful, well-written and well-acted, I was hooked from start to finish watching a unique one-week romance blossom over its 23-minute running time.  

Other films entertained but were less stellar.  

In Ashes
In Ashes attempted to show the depths of craziness that heartbreak can cause as one young man obsesses over and stalks his ex-boyfriend of a few months in a series of ridiculous actions that baffle everyone who knows him.   The downward spiral is sad to watch, but also one to which many can relate.  We’ve all been there, but perhaps hopefully behaved better than this!  The cop-out ending though where he simply finds another stunningly cute young man now devoted to him seemed more like a fairy tale than realistic.  I was hoping to see a message that promotes the notion that our obsession with relationships is what's driving us crazy.  

Sandbag Dam from Croatia was a touching, well-crafted ode to the impossible choices queers have to make between devotion to family and personal liberation.  

Ponyboi
Ponyboi from the U.S. has its strengths, including a strong performance by lead River Gallo as an intersexed person struggling to break free from cycles of violence and disrespect in their New Jersey life and reconnect with family.  All the acting was bang on and I’ve rarely seen as authentic a depiction of the Jersey vibe than here.  But the script was overwrought and sought to squeeze in way too much.  I’m all for character arcs, but did everyone need to have major life epiphanies all within the same 24-hour period depicted in this film?  This felt a lot like it was trying too hard to be some new queer, intersexed version of Pulp Fiction, and didn’t quite succeed.   Kudos though to the film for finally getting cutie Dylan O’Brien to show off his butt in one nice scene near the film’s beginning.